Nonagenarian
Dynamo: A Woman to Remember
By Anita Messina
Lithe
and energetic Sally Smith kayaked, canoed and played a round of golf
every Friday. And doing it all when she was well into her ninth
decade.
The
links game gave her pause to consider whether she should continue to
play. She watched her once strong fairway shots dwindle to a series
of short bounces from tee to green. But weighing the pluses and
minuses, she knew it was better to stay on course than retire to the
sofa, nursing an aging ego. And when you come right down to it, more
swings are better exercise than a hole-in-one.
As
an SU freshman she planned to major in physical education, but
reluctantly Sally gave into her mother’s advice to major in home
economics, a more “lady-like profession” than physical education.
She sat through one semester learning how “not” to bake a
chocolate cake. “That class,” Sally said “was the start of my
migraine headaches.” After a series of failed recipes, her mother
agreed maybe she should try “phys-ed” courses. Sally lost no time
switching her major from baking to basketball and that’s how Port
Byron got an inspiring, popular physical education teacher with an
amazing sense of humor.
Sally
came to her teaching position with a pre-formed liking for Port Byron
because when she was small she had happy visits with her grandmother,
Jennie Sprague, who lived here. The house is long gone, and Sally
doesn’t remember exactly where the house was.
During
Sally’s tenure an interesting turn of events happened at Port Byron
High School. During the war years Principal Arthur Gates allowed a
World War II rations distribution center to be set up in the
cafeteria. Some of his staff – Sally was one – managed the
rations assignment. Each woman was sitting at a different table. Now
it came to pass that a dapper country gentleman, name of Wilbur
Smith, Farmer Wilbur Smith, a Cornell graduate, came in to get his
fair share of rations. Mr. Gates met him at the door and said, “Now,
Wilbur, you pick out the most beautiful girl here and get your ration
book taken care of.”
“Wilbur
sat at my table,” Sally said, “his face red as a beet. Well what
could the poor man do but sit right down? I was the first table in
line.”
Happily
Sally and Wilbur moved from rations to romance. They reared two
daughters, Gretchen and Sue and one son, Douglas. Sally spoke often
of enjoying activities with her six grandchildren and seven
great-grandchildren at their summer home on Ramona Lake.
Through
her last
days on this planet Sally was out and about. “Every day I go
someplace or do something,” she said. Golf and water sports
continued along with volunteer work. She told people: “I can’t do
what I used to, but at the very least I’ll bring a dish-to-pass.”
Sally’s
Often Requested Salad
1
box of bow pasta
Some onions
1/3
cup sugar
Some peppers
½
cup red wine vinegar
Add bacon pieces
Sprinkle
on pecans or walnuts
Sally
believed that to live with vigor “a hearty salad and a trim figure
keep the motor running.” And all through life it’s better
exercise to hit a lot of short bounces rather than only one long
fairway shot. That’s the sound advice echoing still from Port
Byron’s blue ribbon physical education teacher, the one with the
mischievous sense of humor. Sally is forever remembered, forever
revered.
Wonderful tribute to a wonderful woman who I am proud to call my friend.♥
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